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Last eaterie on Indian soil – exploring the Kingdom of Tripura

The ground was closing in real fast; the blocks of earth became less defined, you could now see cows grazing in them, dots of concrete had grown to full-fledged Lego blocks. We flew over a particularly sturdy looking fencing and within a  couple of seconds, the screech of the tires broke the monotony. I had no clue that I was flying over international air before the fence jump we just did.

Kolkata was sweltering at around 40 degrees and I was bracing myself for the same as people for some inconceivable reason started rummaging through to the doors. It’s an Indian affliction; we need to be the first to get out of close spaces. When you live in a country of over a billion people, I guess a starvation for open spaces engulfs you.

Out on the tarmac, the experience was not what I had expected. The app on the phone was talking of rain in the region for the past few days. But the 3G did not work too well either so the news was more motivational than accurate. In an Indian summer, you take what you get. The temperature was a good ten degrees less than what it was only forty five minutes ago.

the Agartala airport

the Agartala airport

I had landed in Agartala, the capital of the princely state of Tripura. Now if you are not from the country, or if you are one of those who did not take their history lessons too seriously, when we say ‘a princely state’ in this part of the world, we mean that one of the ruling monarchies had managed to strike a deal with Her Majesty’s men on horses and remained autonomous but subsequently decided to be a part of the independent republic anyway.

The India Bangladesh border close to the Airport

The India Bangladesh border close to the Airport

After asking around and a considerable amount of discussion with the cabbie who gave me the insight of just how far the state had developed in the last few years, I figured it did rain here “a lot” but “not so wet now”. The city is an incredibly small one. Although technically the “city limits” are much farther, if we go by the official definitions, we will uncannily be reminded of “Into the Wild”.

The place however has done a remarkable job of retaining much of it’s forest cover. Perhaps because it is only recently that the state came out of a terror regime. But I would like to believe the reason is more than just that. The Eco-enthusiast will find himself at a very peculiar position here – there’s green all around, you do not need to travel for more than half an hour to find yourself among dense foliage on either sides of narrow but very well maintained roads. However, an extensive search for homestays, eco-resorts, camps, government jungle lodges or just forest official lodges (you can usually bunk with the forest officials if you pay a small legitimate amount in other parts of the country) revealed nothing.

Agartala roads out of the city

Agartala roads out of the city © B Debnath

Now why visit Agartala? Who should and who should not? These are somethings I tried to answer on this trip. First off, it’s certainly a break from the regular image that North East India presents. For one, people in general picture the snow capped mountains of Arunachal and Sikkim when they think of this part of the country. The better read envisions flamboyant society, bitter cold winters and torrential rainfall. But there is a middle-path. A place which does not shine in any particular way but in it’s own glow, gives a traveler the respite from the performance anxiety that a seasoned traveler often feels, to do justice to a destination.

If you ask what’s there to see in the city or its vicinity, it would be a very difficult question to answer. While the number of attractions are not too low for a city of such a small geographical area, the “sight-seeing” opportunities are pretty limited. Then again, if you travel for the love it and dig deeper, even at first glance, it does have a number of things on offer.

Tripura views © B Debnath

Tripura views © B Debnath

 The Last Eaterie on Indian Soil

Borders have always had a fascination with travelers. Maybe it is the corny concept of pushing the “boundaries”. Nonetheless. When travelers to India talk about the “border”, they usually visualize groups of platoons doing some really wacky parade while throngs of opposing nationalities cheer on (and sometimes exchange unparliamentary pleasantries). Or some remote and featureless desert landscape. Or jagged peaks with Buddhist prayer flags. There is a compulsion to photograph, memorize, write about these environs.

Not so here at the last Eaterie on Indian soil. Here, you write, photograph or talk about it, if you want to. And you usually do. It does not take long – about a 30 minute drive from the city-center and you are sitting at the edge of the fencing, trying out some rice and mutton, green all around, the mandatory temple in the backdrop. What’s not expected is the immense green. And the chugging Bangladeshi meter gauge train not too far away.

The Bangladeshi meter gauge train © B Debnath

The Bangladeshi meter gauge train © B Debnath

The place is called Kasbah or ‘Kashbah’ and houses an important Hindu temple for the locals. But thankfully, it’s not just a religious hotspot. The locale has managed to remain low-key like much of everything else, and is as much of a delicate nature/societal attraction, as it is religious. The street walls leading up to the temple has some intuitive carvings, or rather rock and concrete forms that are quite interesting. They represent episodes of the royal times.  The flowering trees above lend in to the colours generously.

The Kasbah temple © B Debnath

The Kasbah temple © B Debnath

It is the only border fencing in the country that I can think of (I do hope someone proves me wrong) where I can go close enough to aerate my limbs with “international air” without losing them or being shot at. And where I can have panoramic views without having gun barrels spoiling the view. The food was not bad, it was hot, wholesome, and quite full of peace. If one of you reading this do decide to go wandering to these parts, do try out the ‘peda‘; a sweet-dish that seems to predominate the desert scene here.

The border fencing © B Debnath

The border fencing © B Debnath

the last eaterie © B Debnath

the last eaterie © B Debnath

 The Neer Mahal (the water palace)

Rabindranath Tagore, the poet of Noble finesse named the palace so. Can’t say he was at his creative best. Either way, what remains of this island palace gives a pretty good impression of two things – first that the king was a patron of creative architecture, and that he did not attach a lot of importance to opulent use of space. Made by the erstwhile monarchy, it served as the summer palace for the royalty. You need to take a ferry across, or you can hop onto the row-boats. I would advice against it; they did not look very sturdy and rocked ominously. The excuse for a pier was rather a ‘cute’ one. One flimsy strip of wood, lots of water hyacinth and public ferries that took on twenty men at a time.

The Neer Mahal row boats © B Debnath

The Neer Mahal row boats © B Debnath

The palace turned out to be not entirely well maintained, but better when compared to the other palaces around the country. It was built in 1930 and is only the second of its kind, after the lake palace in Udaipur, Rajasthan.

I had read about the rather dramatic usage of flood lights for the light and sound show that supposedly happened every evening but the officials at the ticket counter had no clue about it, and the flood lights did not look like they had been used in some time. Nonetheless, the facade is not as bleak as I make it sound like.

The neer Mahal © B Debnath

The neer Mahal © B Debnath

It’s made of quality marble, and once I was able to lose my way from the very inquisitive fellow travelers showing incredible interest in my camera, I did find peace. Quite literally. Finding the way to the upper levels was not easy without any markings but the view was pretty nice and the breeze really lovely.

The Neer Mahal © B Debnath

The Neer Mahal © B Debnath

 The Rural Night

Sometime during my visit, I took on a drive to the border village of Ishanpur. Why did I do it is beyond the scope of the blog. But I did at the end of it. The place is so small, it does not feature on Google Maps. That’s not really a big indicative, agreed. The village has about three hundred people living in it and is a world of it’s own. Bridges made at the time of the Second World War, little girls hopping along to school, tea gardens, and surprisingly good road quality. Looking over across the border (we drove right along it), and it brought things into perspective. We are not faring too badly after all.

the World War II bridge © B Debnath

the World War II bridge © B Debnath

The village stay provides for the perfect intensive-travel opportunity. Here the mobile phone network does not work, the electricity is pretty flimsy with low voltage and frequent cuts. But the water is delightfully cold, the greenery is mesmerizing, the folks more hospitable than most. The food was still cooked in earthen ovens, the milk came straight from the cowshed, and I was hoping to hear the jackal howl too. It’s supposed to, according to what I was told. The loo system though is a little primitive. Not entirely, but a little. What still amazes me is the seemingly limitless land, all green, all cultivated in sustainable patches that did not spoil the environment and gave it enough time to be in harmony with humans. The rubber plantation seemed to be done in a delicately maintained balance. Trying to talk to the man who was hanging out the rubber sheets only brought back a wide toothless grin.

Rubber plantation in Ishanpur © B Debnath

Rubber plantation in Ishanpur © B Debnath

-Debnath

Travelling Solo – Insights from a lady travelbug

Travelling Solo that too by females in the conservative societies always raises eyebrows. Most people find it weird and not worth the risk involved. There are concerns on loneliness during the travel as much as on the safety and security. I guess a bit of that comes from the fact that traditionally women were not too well versed with the outside world, they were obviously lesser in number in places like hotels or lodges and the families were not confident if women can manage on their own. Even after so many of us have travelled alone for work or for pleasure, it still makes a curious case for most people when you tell them that you love to travel alone.

Train : Singapore to Kuala Lumpur by James Evans

Train : Singapore to Kuala Lumpur by James Evans

After I had travelled alone many times including to some remote locations, someone asked me what is it that I loved about travelling alone and that made me think about it. I took a step back and questioned why do I travel in the first place. Looking back I realized that I travel to cut off from my existing world and I travel to engage with a world that is very different from mine. I travel to meet those people whom I would never meet in my day-to-day life, where I mostly meet people who are more or less like me. I travel to find the basic common denominator shared by all living human civilizations and the to find the differences or characteristics that make each of us unique in our own ways. I like to sit back and observe the land and its people sometimes and at other times I participate in their lives through conversations.

Bamboo train near Battambang, Cambodia by Noud Wieland

Bamboo train near Battambang, Cambodia by Noud Wieland

Sometimes I am like an ethnographer, who likes to be a participant observer. At the same time I am also an ambassador of my own culture and land. I learn about the place I am visiting through my direct and indirect interactions while I also dispel myths about my city, country, community, caste, religion, and gender. There is some kind of osmosis that starts happening and the end of it I know a lot about the place I visited and a few people know me, or what I stand for.

Next I tried to find a logical, rational answer to why I like to travel Solo. I figured that biggest reason for my preference for Solo travelling is the fact that when you travel alone you are hundred percent in the place beneath your feet. There is no constant reminder of the place you have come from and you will be going back to. When you travel with your spouse, you may keep going through your to do lists and keep reminding each other of what needs to be done after you go back, or you may keep comparing this trip to the one of the earlier ones. When you travel with friends, you keep going back to the common thing that binds you be it the school you went together to, or the office you shared or the hobbies that you pursue. Even when you travel in groups where you do not know anyone on day one, by second day you would have found something common with everyone.

As you go through the streets of Vrindavan by Anuradha Goyal

As you go through the streets of Vrindavan by Anuradha Goyal

This focus on the common does not let you immerse completely in the place, and whatever extent you manage to immerse it is difficult to be non-judgmental. The moment you start comparing, the judgment creeps in and takes away the joy of sheer immersion. I have been able to suspend my judgment when I travelled alone, that in itself is a pleasure that we hardly get in our routine lives. In fact most of the times I try and travel without the gadgets that keep me connected to my home. Just make one call home a day to tell them I am fine and be ensured that everything back home is OK, and spend the rest of the 23 hours 55 minutes in the place you are. Stories can be shared once I am back. Internet is used only to get information about the place and not to engage with people and activities that will again pull me into my home world.

Next to the being bound to your roots comes the extent of freedom. We know that attachments always take away a bit of our freedom and more the attachments more the loss of freedom. No matter how considerate your co-travelers are, they do take away a bit of your freedom. Each of us has our own way of travelling, our choices of what we like to do and our own pace to see a place. I like to go for early morning walks, I like to see the place waking up, when people are yet to wear their masks, when they are yet to wear their roles and responsibilities, when their thoughts are still pure and when they are not really conscious of the world around them. Now to get up early morning is not an exciting idea for most people who travel to relax. I like to sit and chat with common people and listen to their thoughts, and it takes some effort to make people comfortable to be able to talk to you, and let go of the walls that separate you.

The tea gardens in Assam by Anuradha Goyal

The tea gardens in Assam by Anuradha Goyal

Not many people are willing to invest that kind of effort in opening channels with apparently insignificant people. Sometimes I want to spend whole day in a museum studying the artifacts and reading the material and talking to people who know more about the displays there. Museums are again not a great favorite with many people. The crux is that when I am alone I am in complete control of my time and can engage in activities that I truly enjoy without any need to oblige anyone or to return an obligation. Imagine studying a museum when you know someone outside is wasting his or her time because of your love for the subject. Even that guilt takes away some joy and you try to compensate it somewhere else, by going to places where you may not go if you were travelling alone.

An obvious corollary of the freedom is the flexibility. Real travelers travel with a curiosity in their hearts and minds, which means they keep their eyes and ears open for anything that they have not expected from the trip. They are always open to a new experience – be it a conversation about a subject they know nothing about, a new taste, a new place, a new perspective or just about anything. To truly experience this, the plans need to be flexible, you should willing to change your plans on the go, or trade off your existing plans for the new ones instantly. It is easy when you are on your own and can take all your decisions yourself without having to discuss or negotiate with anyone.

If you have travelled alone at some point in time, you would have experienced all my rational and logical reasons to some extent.

My next question was what do I really yearn for that a solo travel promises to provide me. Let me share a sensitive experience that I have had as and when I travelled alone. When I am plugged out from my routine life, in an entirely new setting where everything is new to me, I have all the freedom and control of my time and space, I see the birth of poetry in me. I do not make an effort, it just happens. The visuals and experiences just take the shape of rhyming words and flow on paper or the keypad. I just sit there like an observer through which the experiences translate themselves into words. Words that describe the place, describe the tender relationship between the place and me, the new realizations, new insights and the new feelings. Poetry happens when you are sensitive to the surroundings, when you can sense beyond the obvious, bond with the subconscious. For some reasons, it always happens when I travel alone. Does that mean that travelling alone makes me far more sensitive to the environment I am in? – Definitely yes. It lets me bond with the surroundings, it lets me be a part of it and somehow those days that I have spent there become a part of the place as much as they become a part of me. There is a sharing that happens. The place remains an alien when I am not alone, because I am not giving it my hundred percent.

Yes, there are some inconveniences in travelling alone, it can be boring at times, it definitely works out costlier but when I weigh them against the experiences that it gives me, I prefer to choose it over any other kind of travel.

-Anuradha

About the Author:

Anuradha Goyal

Innovation Consultant (Hyderabad)

An avid traveler and blogger, Anuradha’s blog has been featured in the top 50 travel blogs in the world, and is regularly listed among the best blogs of the country. She used to be an IT professional working with global giants like Coca Cola and Infosys, before she gave in to travelust.  In her own words:

“I am an eternal nomad, having lived in 14 cities across the country and couple of them outside. At the moment Hyderabad is home to me. I think I was born to roam around. If road was a city or a country, I am sure I would be one of its citizens.

Some accolades came on the way like this blog was rated as one of the 50 best blogs on travel around the world. It constantly features in the best blog lists of India. I was interviewed by the P7 channel as a Travel Guru.

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